I saw you mentioned you have a gf and wanted to know if you could answer this question for me. I am new to this idea from people since I never been around people being in relationships or predicaments like this. I see people don't put labels on relationships and such because they think it is rushing the process and want to take it slow (that I can understand). Some don't want a label of a bf/gf yet and just say they are dating, but have feelings for someone and are seeing each other I guess, but aren’t focused at the moment on making things bigger. But, aren’t there always going to be labels? I mean, when you say you are just dating, can’t that be a label also? I don’t know, it is confusing to me because I guess I am old-fashioned (but young). Like to me, if you like someone you would focus on them and try to make things work, but if you go on saying things aren’t focused now, how is it suppose to happen? Maybe it is commitment issues, fear of being hurt, etc. I don’t know, but if you throw sex in the mix also, than it will seem the 2 people are in a relationship or something. I don’t know, it is just really confusing to me because people make that idea of things like this confusing and just more complicated with love.
I had to hold on to understand since you are a bit confusing, and English is not my native language, neither are date conventions (I had to learn them the hard way)
I just think you should let people be creative about relationships. As long as nobody is hurt (which never happens) and both agree on the same “status”. Also, I don’t care about labels, people who label people are limited anyway.
Aside from that, what is your point?
